Do some women play a particular role in positions of power?

So… I was talking to my friend the other day and we were talking about female bosses… And women in the military… I’ve heard this often that “the women are even worse than the men” to me this proves that women are often questioned whether or not they are suitable for a powerful or authoritative job, they even feel that they have to prove themselves to their male colleagues so they will be respected and taken seriously….

So we either don’t make it to the top or we have to be “ice queen bitches?” Are those our only options